The slow burn only works because nobody is pushed along it. Here is the charter every bee in the hive flies by — five rules, no fine print.
Nobody owes anyone a conversation here. Either person can end any chat in one tap, instantly, with no reason owed — and the other side simply sees a closed call. The hive runs on two willing people or it does not run at all.
Video never opens by default, by timer, or by trick. It goes live when you tap and your match taps — both, always. One yes is a maybe, and a maybe keeps the cameras dark.
There is no persuading, no "just one more minute". If a chat ends, it ends. Pushing past a no is the fastest way out of the hive — permanently.
Skip, mute, report and block sit one tap away in every session — not buried in a menu, not behind a settings page. You should never have to search for the exit.
Use Report to flag behaviour for review by our moderation team. Breaking the community guidelines has real consequences, up to permanent removal from the platform.
One yes keeps everything dark. Zero yeses keep everything dark. That is the whole mechanism — the step-by-step walkthrough shows where this moment sits in the full flight path.
Ends the chat and brings another match — take the next one whenever you like.
Kills the other side’s audio without ending the scene.
Flags the behaviour to our moderation team for review.
Stops further contact with that person. Quiet, clean, done.
The full rulebook lives in the community guidelines — two minutes, plain language, worth it before your first chat.
Strictly 18+ · Consent-first · Report / block / mute always available